Saturday, August 29, 2009

Apartment Searching not going to good…

Let’s see the first place I went to see was to small.  It reminded me more of college dorms.  If it didn’t have the small fridge like back in college I probably would be considering it now.  Even though there would be major drawbacks.  The second place I went to see was very decent in size.  Again some drawbacks like the guy that was renting out the room was also job searching nationwide and said that if he got an offer tomorrow in Hawaii, that he would sell the house and move there.  Which means that I would have to apartment search again.  But they guy choose somebody else to rent that room.  The third place was a little to far away where I wanted to be.  The fourth place which was RiverChase Apartments, the guy never showed up even though I told him I was going to be there.  I might give them a second chance but after being jerked around all last week, I’m not sure.  But would be in an area where I want it to be and within walking distance to the Brighton Center.  But I will continue searching for that apartment.  If I had a car, the search would be a lot easier but since I don’t it’s making it very difficult but of course I love challenges.

So, if anybody is looking for a roommate in Newport, KY, e-mail me.  My cell phone has been temporarily turned off for lack of payment but will probably be back on in October.  I can still receive calls until T-Mobile decides to officially turn it off.  So, if I gave you the number to where I’m staying, please use it when you can’t get a hold of me.  Otherwise, you can e-mail me, facebook me, and etc.

TL

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Long week last week…

As you all can tell, it’s been a little over a week since I last wrote an entry into this blog.  A lot has been going on here.  I have been helping the people I’m staying with clean up their place to get ready for a 50th Birthday party on Saturday.  So, there was a lot of carrying stuff here and there and downstairs and etc.  Not to mention, I have been trying to find a place to stay as well.  As most of you all know, I have found a volunteering job that gives me a living allowance.  So, I have been looking at a few places.  I will probably know about one later this week or early next week.  But for the mean time I will continue searching.  I also helped a friend move.  I also had to go and get another months of medication.  And now, I’m resting my ankle as it’s very sore from all the walking, moving, and etc.

TL

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Ex-NFL running back convicted of 7 felony counts…

Man, talking about a big waste of his talents.  This kid has been nothing but trouble since day one of his life!  I’m sorry, as many chances as this kid has been given over the years, I hope the judge really give him a very long sentence added on to what he is already serving.  I remember watching him at Nebraska and he had great talent but now it’s just going to waste because of his anger and stupidity.  Once a promising star now a bust in life.  Article below:  Ex-NFL running back Lawrence Phillips convicted of 7 felony counts

TL

What Proper Diagnoses means…

Ever since I have been diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes back in April 2008, it has changed my life in drastic way.  One of those ways is understanding my body better.  Before I was diagnosed with diabetes, I used to get hot and sweaty whenever I go to sleep at night.  Whenever I would explain to doctors and friends, they would tell me it’s stress related.  Which back then could have been true.  But I always thought it might be something else because these hot flashes came every night.  But was told the same thing over and over, it’s stress related.  Things changed after I was diagnosed with diabetes.  As I study the symptoms of both low and high blood sugars, I notice that getting hot and start sweating was a symptom.  I started to notice that I wasn’t having these hot flashes or getting hot and sweaty during the night as I tried to sleep.  As the months went by, every time I get hot and sweaty or of these hot flashes I would check my blood sugar to notice that my blood sugar levels were low.  So, I would maybe drink a small glass of milk, orange juice, or apple juice and wait 15 minutes and test my blood sugar again and it would be back to normal.  Doctors want my blood sugar to be between 70 to 140.  I have been noticing when I have those hot flashes or getting hot and sweaty that my blood sugars have been below 70.

Last night was no different, when I went to bed I was fine and as I tossed and turned while I couldn’t sleep, I started to get hot and sweaty.  So, I got up and tested my blood sugars to see how low my blood sugar level was.  It was down to 65.  So, I got up and had a glass of milk and a piece of Dove Chocolate.  I waited my 15 minutes or so and rechecked my blood sugars and notice it was back up to 84 which was within my normal range.  My hotness and sweats went away.  I had a great night of sleep after that.

With me being properly diagnosed with my diabetes, I’m starting to really understand my body better as I have been putting the two things together from my past and now my present to notice the different symptoms of my diabetes.  Understanding these has helped me become a better person and more confident in life now because now I have the controls and not the other way around.

TL

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Apartment Searching…

So, today when I woke up I had an e-mail regarding an ad I placed on Craigslist for housing wanted.  But talking about being a small world after all.  Since I’ve been in my current situation, it seems that I have been getting back in touch with old friends that I haven’t seen in years.  Well, today was no different.  I received an e-mail from a person regarding my ad.  He was letting me know that he had a possible place for me if I was interested.  As I got to the end of the e-mail I notice that the guy’s last name was “Vater” and I saw that his place that he had was in Southgate.  So, I sent back an e-mail letting him know that I was interested in the place but wanted to come out to view the place.  Then asked him if he knew “Tim Vater”.  I let him know that I went to college with a “Tim Vater” and was wondering if he was his father.  Come find out he was.  What a small world after all?

You see, Tim and I met when I started college in August 1995.  Of course I was a little older than him.  But soon we became good friends and where you saw him, you would see me or vice versa.  Of course he graduated in 1999 as I continue on with my college journey for my bachelor.  He was a great friend and in the last few months I have been looking to get back in touch with him.  So, I thought this was a little sign maybe when I met his dad today.  But like all good things, things have to come to an end.  After he graduated, we lost touch.  Also, we didn’t leave things in good term but let’s see if he will contact me now a days.  I’m hearing that he is married now for about two years and that he is working over in Cinti Metro Housing Association.  Which is another consequence because with me starting working for Brighton Center, I’ll be doing with housing information.  So, I’m sure I’ll be contacting him over at CMHA.  So, it will be interesting if he will even contact me.

As for the place, it was ok.  And yes, Tim also lived in the same place as well.  I wasn’t to fond of the of the kitchen because it has a college like refrigerator that had very limited freezer which I would like.  But the place did go furnished.  Another thing I didn’t like was the many steps that it had to get to the place.  For this I’m thinking about my mom.  She won’t come and visit due to her knees.  She hated working up like six steps at my last place.  So, imagine how much more she would had 20 steps?  Actually she wouldn’t come to visit me at all.  But the good thing is though that he is willing to work with me and Brighton Center as well.  Not to mention, the landlord’s daughter is also in the AmeriCorps Vista program as well.  But this is only my first place that I really looked at.  So, as I mention probably in a few other of my post, I’m looking to move into an apartment sometimes in the month of September.

Also, I want to thank my friend Brett for coming to pick me up and go see this place.  I wouldn’t be able to do this today if it wasn’t for him.  So, thank you Brett!

TL

Saturday, August 8, 2009

My Twitter Updates…

I just noticed today, Saturday, August 8, 2009, that my text updates that I have been sending via my cell phone aren’t getting to my great followers.  But I’m receiving everybody’s updates that I’m following on Twitter.  So, looks like the DoS that Twitter is receiving messed up my ability to update my great followers.  So, please be patient as I try to figure what’s going on.

Also, I have added “Twitter” section to my blog.  So, now when people come to my blog, they can see what I’m doing.  I’m going to be working on updating my blog a little bit more by adding more links and other things over the next few months.  So, if you have any suggestions, please feel free to comment on this thread.

TL

Thursday, August 6, 2009

A change of direction…

As of yesterday, Wednesday, August 5th, I had my last interview.  Even though I had my mind made up on accepting the AmeriCorps position, I went to this interview because I didn’t want to burn any bridges.  But I also made sure I didn’t set any other interviews up.  Which on Tuesday, August 4th, I received three calls for interviews.  Which, of course, I told them I accepted another position.  My heart is pretty set on the AmeriCorps position.  There are a lot of great pros for taking this position.  Like, for example:  1)  Federal employee experience status – after working with AmeriCorps, this position will give me federal status which down the road will open up a whole another job area for me when I start job searching again.  2)  new experience in a new field – I feel that this job is giving me a new direction in my life.  3)  Volunteering will make a huge impact on my resume.  4)  The year time frame will help me work on personals issues I have that will set me for the rest of the life, so this last year or almost two years won’t happen again.  So, no matter what happens with this latest job interview, I’m already know in my mind that I’m not going to accept the position.  With that said and the interviews portion over, I can change the direction that I’m going in.

That new direction is to now start finding a place to live.  Theoretically, I would like to move into a new place by September 1st.  But really starting to think it might be middle to late September.  I would like to find a place either in Newport or maybe Covington.  Just depends on what I’m looking for.  Which I would love to be able to get rent and utilities for under $500 but I think the only way that is going to happen is if I find a person that is looking for a roommate or I find a place with somebody.  But with past experiences with roommates, this might be out of the question.  I would love to find a place for myself to live.  That would be my ultimate goal.  So, if anybody knows of a place or maybe a friend that’s looking for a roommate, please let me know.

Then once I find this place, get settled in both the new place and the job I’m going to be doing, then my next plan of action is to start on working on my personal issues.  I’m determined not to let this happened to me again.  But as I look back though, this could have been a blessing in disguise though.  Finding out that I had diabetes made a big difference in my life.  It has helped me see that I can lose weight correctly.  So, getting my own place would be a battle won itself because then I can start eating correctly again and pay attention to what I’m eating as well.  I lost a little over 80 pounds from April 2008 till October 2008.  Then from October 2008 until now, I find it very encouraging that I only gain 15 pounds back.  Normally I would gain back the weight and then double that as well.  But it’s encouraging to see that I haven’t.  Another blessing in disguise is knowing how determined I am still.  With the up and downs in my life, most people would have given up.  I was determined not too.  I will admit that there were a few times I wanted too.  When I felt like I was going too, I either took some “me” days and just cutback on what I was doing and let myself tell me when I’m ready to get back with to it.  I would do a lot of reading or researching on the internet that would give me a great idea or something and I would feel refresh to start back at what I’m doing again.  Another blessing out of this whole situation is finally giving my life a sense of direction.  Up until about a month ago, I didn’t have a direction.  I was struggling with what I wanted to.  Then about a month ago, a light came on to help me find AmeriCorps and do what I would like to do and that is using my skill set to help poverty communities and the people that live in those communities.  Once I figured that out, things went fast and now I’m very excited and feel like some weight has been taken off my shoulders.  Now, I just have to face some fallout on things that have happened in my last year or two.  But tell you what though?  Going through this situation has really showed me a lot.  It showed me things that I need to work on personally and professionally.  So, that’s what I’m planning on doing this upcoming year.

So, continue checking back more often once I find my place because then I’ll will be doing more updates more often because I will have my stuff out.  Not to mention feeling better emotionally and physically as I start the healing process.  Thank you everybody that has helped me out over the last two years.  You all know who you are!

TL

Monday, August 3, 2009

It’s official…

As the title says, it’s official, I have been accepted into the AmeriCorps.  Which means that I will be serving one year of my time to my assigned location.  I will be getting a modest living expense and other help.  This is a very slow way back on my feet which I think will be helpful for the rest of my life.  I have been assigned to work with the Brighton Center, which is kind of funny because I have been trying to get a job with them.  So, this is a way I can show what I can do and hope that they will hire me at the end of the year.  But during this year, I will be working on a lot of personal issues I have.  But bottom line is I’m excited to be serving my time and getting experience in the process.  This is a very positive move in the right direction for my life!

 

TL